The above title is what popped into my head as I focused on verses 13-22 of Mark 10. Here we find two encounters with Jesus. In the first, the disciples are keeping the children from Jesus. He becomes indignant and instructs them to let the children come to him. In the second, a rich young man comes to Jesus for spiritual direction. Jesus tests his obedience to the 10 commandments and then advises him to sell all he has and follow him. The children come and are blessed by Jesus; the young man goes away disheartened by Jesus.
At first glance one might see a discontinuity in Jesus’ respones, compassion towards the children but harshness towards the young man. Yet verse 21 states that Jesus loved the young man and it was out of that heart commitment Jesus advised the selling of the possessions. Jesus had just finished teaching that one can only enter the Kingdom of God as a little child (v. 15). Little children enter full of trust in God. They have not accumulated the baggage of possessions, power, prestige. They rely on nothing else but God. That is what the young man needed to learn, and difficult as that lesson is for those that have wealthy, all is possible for God (see v. 27).
Jesus does not tell us what we might like to hear, he tells us what we need to know. His mission was not to be ‘managed’ by followers or flattered by seekers, it was “to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (v. 45).